Post by Aneika Angus, an ALT in Isa.
Hey loves, don’t you just love this time of year, the birds a gearing up to head south for the winter, leaves are changing and temperatures have “shankle dipped” over night to new lows. Yup it’s the season, reappointment season that is. I’ve been talking to a few of you about this over the past few weeks and it seems for some the decision is almost equivalent to being asked to use a basket to carry water. It seems so daunting and you know in your heart,
“This ish aint gonna work.”
Lets first look at your progress thus far; I want you to ask yourself the following questions;
- What were the expectations you had of being a JET participant prior to coming to Japan?
- How do those expectations compare to your actual life in Japan?
- Are you in a position where you are constantly learning something new, or are being challenged to learn and or grow as a person?
- Will any of what you’ve learnt be usable or adaptable to your life outside of Japan?
We all had a preconceived notion of what life would be like in Japan, some of us even went as far as to set goals for yourself, these are all perfectly natural human reactions to making major changes. But we must evaluate ourselves and our achievements when it comes time to admit that many of the goals we had set have not been achieved.
Now the reality is that many of you may be worried about re-contracting due to various factors:
- An additional year in Japan could mean a significant setback to jump starting your career, should you choose to forgo teaching when you leave Japan.
- You’re all “Japan Out”, meaning you’ve been everywhere, seen everything and now are no longer impressed by what the country has to offer.
- While the money is good, bills back home are being paid etc. You are no longer happy.
The above are just a few of the extensive list I have. But the fact still remains, reappointment is your decision to make, do not pressure yourself into staying in a situation that confines you and makes you unhappy. Remember my loves; you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer. I will not sit here and tell you that life will be better when you return to your country. Chances are you will have to sit on your derrière for 3-6months before you find a job but we’ll get into that aspect in my next blog to you, for now, I want you all to think carefully about this decision.
Here are some Realistic Reasons to Re-contract:
- You are content with your placement and job requirements
- You feel that you are making a contribution that has a positive effect on others.
- You can identify personal and professional growth in yourself.
When considering your options for reappointment, be wary of deceptive rationalizations such as:
- I’ll save money next year.
- I’ll learn Japanese if I stay
Unless there is a radical change in your life, chances are your life in Japan will not change dramatically if you were to choose to re-constract, this is empirically proven for third and fourth year JETs.
Realistic Reasons NOT to RE-CONTRACT:
- Procrastination – putting off a hard decision, such as going back to school, or going home to face unresolved issues with family etc.
- Money – staying on JET for the sole purpose of collecting a cheque.
- Obligations – Persons within your BOE or CO have become familiar with you and they may pressure you into staying.
- Indifference – its neither here nor there to you at this point, plus you’re a foreigner and you love the attention you get.
Happy thinking loves and remember, sometimes we have to let go of the life we have planned to embrace the one that’s waiting for us.